

Are you motivated? Use this technique to maintain relationship habits
Do you sometimes struggle with motivation? Join the club! We all have some things we know we should do, but just can’t quite keep the consistency we need. We know these things (exercising, healthy eating, being emotionally vulnerable, attending therapy) feel good in the long run, but it can be hard to to bring yourself to take action… Read More

Do you know what REALLY makes your partner feel loved?
Use Love Languages to Create SUPER-POWERED Relationship Habits You may be familiar with Gary Chapman’s book The 5 Love Languages. Many couples have found his ideas to be a useful tool for understanding what actions most lead each other to feel loved. It occurred to me recently that the love languages could be a powerful way to focus on… Read More

Your relationship could be making you fat….
Relationship Habits are Strongly Influenced by the Company you Keep Did you know you are over 50% more likely to be obese if your partner or friends are obese? The reverse is also true: if one person in a relationship loses weight, their partner is highly likely to lose weight as well. What??? How is this… Read More

Create a Relationship-Friendly Environment and Watch Your Love Grow
Relationship Habits Improve through Changing Your Environment So how are your relationship habits coming along? Even if you haven’t implemented any real change yet, just being aware of your tendencies can have a major impact on your life. One major goal of counseling is to increase awareness of who you are and what you do. Understanding yourself more… Read More